I know I said I wasn't going to write anymore but there has been such an outpouring of love and support I simply had to use this as a forum to say thank you. ALL of your words of encouragement and your suggestions have been taken to heart. By me at least. I've bought a book and a DVD suggested by a very dear friend whose opinion I value. I can't say he'll watch or read with me. To be honest I doubt he will. At least not right now
I have no idea what the future holds. I have no idea if my marriage is savable. But I refuse to give up without trying EVERYTHING first. I want to be able to say to myself and my children that I tried, with everything I have in me, to make my marriage work.
So thank you, all of you, from the bottom of my heart.
Several of you have asked me not to leave FB. I don't know what I'm going to do about it right now. At the very least I'll be scarce for some time. But I promise I won't make any decisions hastily.